https://www.spigotmc.org/link-forums/spigot-buildtools.88/ You will need to use buildtools to get the latest version. see the 1st post on the main page for info
No, thats the build tools jar, you download that, then follow the instructions here https://www.spigotmc.org/threads/buildtools-updates-information.42865/ You will need to install some software to finish this, when you have it all dome, you should have the latest version of spigot if you use the latest build code witch is java -jar BuildTools.jar --rev 1.9.4 Good luck!
Without any protocol hacks (which I don't know if exist yet) you can only have either have 1.9, 1.9.1 & 1.9.2 OR 1.9.3 & 1.9.4. You'll need to download BuildTools (links above) and very carefully follow the instructions here.